Tim's Sesame Sauce for Cold Chinese Noodles

(enough for about 1/2 lb noodles)

2 tbs soy sauce
1 tbs finely chopped scallions
2 tbs Chinese sesame paste
(may substitute "natural", i.e. no sugar, peanut butter)
1 tsp hot pepper oil
(hot pepper oil varies greatly - us logistics were too complicated.) We took photos with our families, set up the stereo with the special mix CD’s that Jeff had made, and made sure everything else was going well. And then it was almost noon, and Jeff and I went into the woods for a walk, just the two of us.

As we walked, I teased him: “You sure you want to do this?” Then we practiced reading our parts of the ceremony to each other. My soon-to-be-husband cried as I read to him, as we stumbled up the mossy path, and then I cried as he